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You can't expect yourself to be able to do the things they do. They
are pros at it. I know that sounds funny, sometimes I wish I was a
pro at having sex. That is what they are though. That is why they
get paid the big bucks to show it all for the camera. They can bend
themselves into positions that we can't even imagine. The women can
suck a cock twice as long as a normal woman can. When was the last
time you saw a woman take a huge penis in her back door and wonder
how she could take all of it?
Some women are into trying out what they see on the television.
That doesn't mean though that they play with themselves with the sex
toys all day long watching porn. That means that they are really
into the sex acts. That is like hitting pay dirt my friend. If you
were at a casino lights would be flashing telling you that you won a
jackpot. Well, let's slow down a little here. There is one problem,
kind of a big problem. Most men see these things in the movies and
they are too embarrassed to ask their lover to try it out. I'm not
sure why this is, but maybe it has to do with the fact that you have
to admit to watching porn.
If you never ask, you will never know. If you run under the
blankets every time you want to try something new, she won't ever
know what is on your mind. Though it might seem like it at times,
women aren't mind readers. You need to tell her what you want to
do. Don't be ashamed. Chances are there are new things she would
like to do as well. If you keep an open line of communication open,
you stand a better chance of acting out your fantasizes. What do
you have to loose? You need to keep in mind that just because she
likes to get nasty, that doesn't mean that she is nasty. You have
to keep a different mind set when you see your woman doing these sex
acts compared to the woman you see in the movie doing it. In your
mind the woman in the movie is a dirty slut, in real life, the woman
doing this to you is the woman you have to wake up next to.
If you expect to have a lasting relationship that lasts more than
one bang, you need to be open. If you plan on being with this woman
for a long period of time, then you need to be able to discuss your
sexual dreams. That is the only way a relationship can last. If
you don't, you will end up with a lot of built up tension or one hell
of a credit card bill from buying porn videos all the time. It's not
worth keeping your fantasizes quiet. Be open, be honest. You will
find out that she has some weird sexual desires too. Have fun with
them. If you expect her to go along with yours, you have to expect
to go along with hers.
You should buy some oils and maybe even some kinky costumes. Do a
little role playing in bed. Be that big bad rent collector and she
doesn't have the money to pay this month. Tell her that she will
have to lie on her back and screw you for this month's rent. Do
kinky stuff that turns both of you on. Usually there is some middle
ground that you can reach regarding things like this. Make it fun,
be an actor. Try to win a Grammy award.
Don't be unrealistic. Don't expect her to be able to roll up in a
ball like putty while you bang her. Chances are most men and women
can't get themselves in the positions that they see in the movies.
That is just a fact you will have to live with. Instead, take away
bits and pieces that you know you will be able to do. Do a
variation of doggy style or something like that. Have her lay on a
pillow so her buttocks points higher up than normal. That sort of
thing. Find ways to work around all of it.
If you aren't too demanding, things will fall into place. You
aren't a movie director, so don't tell her how to make her every
move. That will only put too much pressure on her. If you were put
under that much pressure you wouldn't be able to perform. She won't
be able to either. Keep a clear and realistic mind when it comes to
acting out your favorite sex scenes. This will help you get the
most bang for your porno buck. It will keep you (and her) a satisfied
customer again and again. |
