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by Jessica Sanders
Hot Blow Job…
Why am I writing about giving your man a blowjob in my column
you may ask, well I believe that if you please your man, then to
please he will please you too. When giving a blowjob, giving
head or going down on your man, did you know that this form of
sexual gratification too could turn you on?
How do you give the perfect blowjob?
Hehehehe, blowjobs, bjs hmmmmm… good topic don’t you think?
Giving a blowjob can be such a turn of for both parties so try
it before you say you don’t like it.
Once again like with the guys, you both need to be comfortable
with it. If you feel that it is not a clean “tool” then have a
shower together. Ladies take it in your hands, grab the soap,
lather it up and wash it, play with it, see how it responds to
your touch.
If there is room in the shower, kneel down in front of him and
look closely at it, see how clean it is, before flicking your
tongue over the tip. See how clean it is… Now you know that it’s
clean because you helped wash it thoroughly, Close your mouth
around it and feel it grow hard in your warm, moist mouth.
Take control and enjoy your blowjob as much as your partner!!
If you are being sensual and your partner tries to thrust
causing you to deep throat and gag when you are not ready, grab
him gently with you teeth, not tight enough to break the skin
but tight enough to stop him…
Do not break the skin…
if you do all the romantic desires will have gone!!!!!
Ladies use your tongue, flicking it backwards and forwards as
you suck. You can do both at the same time. Trust me on that
one…
Now if you feel comfortable sucking him in the shower, get off
your knees and head to somewhere a bit more comfortable, like
the bed, continue what you were already doing but in a different
position.
Ok first if you have lube – like KY jelly handy grab that before
getting onto the bed, flavoured is great….
Have your guy lay down on the bed, kneel between his knees,
squeeze a little bit of the lube, covering both hands…
Take his penis into your hands, see how slippery and sensual it
is, gently massaging the shaft with both hands, occasionally
teasing the head paying particular attention to the underside of
the head.
Remember that you must be gentle that is why I keep referring to
that particular word.
Now ladies hold on to his cock, use your tongue flicking over
the head, lick the head all over and use the flat of your tongue
to cover more area, gently suck on the head, sucking it into
your mouth at the same time flick your tongue back and forwards
around the head. Pay particular attention to the Frenulum (the
underside of the penis), as it’s the most sensitive part of the
glans (the head of the penis).
Tease him and please him at the same time, you can do it!
Run your hands over his inner thighs as you mouth moves on his
shaft. Lower your mouth over his shaft and the trick to taking
in as much as you can – to deep throat is to breath out as you
are taking him in. I know this is a big ask, but concentrate on
your breathing at the same time to avoid the uncontrollable
urges you may get. I won’t go into detail, but I am sure you
know what I am talking about.
As you suck him deep into your mouth and with your hand around
the lowest part of the shaft pump him gently as your mouth rides
his hot swollen penis.
As a bonus for your partner with the hand that is almost free,
gently massage your partner’s testicles. Squeeze them, hold
them, run your finger nails over them – there’s that word again
“gently”, and at the same time sensually play with them.
Now the choice is yours. If your partner is your long-term
partner and you feel you would like to taste him and swallow his
cum, then read on, if not skip this paragraph and go on to the
next… Your partner’s cock is throbbing with anticipation as your
tongue works it’s magic, you taste his pre-cum it’s salty but
nice, you wrap your hand firmly but not too tight around his
cock, with your mouth sucking him deep, keep sucking as you pump
him faster and faster… Keep stroking him until you feel his cock
throb and suddenly he explodes sending his hot creamy cum down
your throat… Look at him and lick your lips to show how much you
enjoyed sucking his rod dry…
For the ladies who don’t like the taste, when you feel your
partner’s cock throbbing and you feel his hips starting to
thrust against you, take your mouth of his penis and with your
hand wrapped firmly around his shaft pump faster and faster. Let
your partner tell you how fast and how hard to stroke him as he
gets nearer and nearer to dropping his load for you.
As he ejaculates let him know that you are excited too. I love
watching a guy cum so as he is crying out in pleasure, if you
are enjoying it too then I am sure you will know what to do…
Taking control of your partner’s orgasm ultimately is a turn-on;
learn how to give that special blowjob as it can ultimately be a
satisfying experience for all involved. |
