Top Ten List Of Flirting
Tips
By Fran Greene
10. Flirting is an attitude: A good flirt is
self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic and
positive, it works!
9. Start a conversation: The best opening line is
saying hello. Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for
help, state an opinion.
8. Have fun: Be playful, light-hearted and
spontaneous. Show your vulnerability.
7. Use props: Never leave home without a prop. Props
are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and
others will be compelled to start talking to you. Great props include:
dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a fabulous scent, a sweatshirt with your
favorite passion, interesting ties, hats, or an interesting book or
newspaper.
6. Be the host: Change your behavior from the role of
guest to host. You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather
the welcome committee.
5. Make the first move: Move closer to the person you
want to meet. Say hello!
4. Listen: You have two ears and one mouth because you
should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art.
Your flirting partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be
heard.
3. Eye contact: Make eye contact, but please look your
partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance
away. Don’t stare – it’s a turn off.
2. Compliment: Compliment your flirting partner. The
best compliments have the element of surprise. The "flirtee" will know
that you really noticed them. Remember, your compliments must be
honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment the best
response is merely, Thank You!
1. Smile: It is contagious. It will make you so much
more approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people to
you. You will be a people magnet. Try it!
